Character...!

Everyone has their own character but y is it there are some whose character is just so bad...........y can't they change it if they kw they got a prob?Very fedup leh.....it always happen again n again......make mi wondering am i the one who is at fault n not them?its very tiring to forgive n then same thing happens again.......then get upset n then ok n the cycle just goes on n on loh.Y is it that they are able to say out hurting words w/o thinking of the other party's feelings?How will u feel if u the one who are being said those nasty words?Not everyone can tolerate it wan hor.

Am i too 'soft'?My personal view is to make as many frends loh,as long my frends are happy i be happy too loh.....is my thinkings wrong?Some frends told mi that i will get easily bullied n taking advantage of.But being shuibian n easygoing doesn't means the person got no temper or wat ah.As long as once things reach to the limit of tolerance sure will blow out wan ah....n the temper may be worse than those ppl who always throw temper wan wor.All these u nv kw,rite?I just dun wan to kick up a big fuss only.By keeping quiet doesn't mean u can be rude to mi wor n say hurting words.I got feelings wan loh.